Curious_Ora

I am a 36 year old female who recently moved to France permanently.I speak English fluently but only passable French though I am still learningI've been in the kink scene for a few years in another country. I have lots of experience in being a bottom, either for my own play with a partner or as a bottom to help teach new people. For example how to use a flogger etc, I would volunteer to be the bottom so I could give feedback etc. If I bottom, I do not engage in sexual play. I am a submissive when it comes to sexual acts, and I am only a submissive in the bedroom. I enjoy bondage, either by hands or using items such as restraints. I enjoy slightly rougher sex, ie pinning down, hair pulling, rough, hard etc. I have only had 2 sexual dominant partners so I am still new to being a sexual submissive. It is something I am curious about and wish to explore with the right partner.Full disclosure, I am largely overweight. However, I hope that doesn't make me less worthy of finding someone to play with me. It just means I can take a bit more play before I need to tap out *winks* Seriously though, I am big. I know it. I own up to it. But I'm also serious about wanting to find someone to play with me preferably on the regular. A dominant would also be really nice.Since there isn't a option for me to chose to represent myself as a bottom, a submissive is the next closest match. I am a bottom submissive looking for a top.

I'm either looking for a Top for play. If I bottom I do not engage in sexual play. I am also happy to volunteer if someone would like to practise their skills and require the use of a bottom. I would ideally like a long term top because we would both be able to develop our interests and skills, as well as develop trust together over time, hopefully leading to many successful and fun 'plays' for both.I've had some experience with floggers, paddles and canes, hands such as hitting, slapping and mild punching, I have also bottomed with rope and I absolutely loved it. So if anyone practices shibari and would like a bottom, I would be happy to have a conversation with that person and see if play might be possible between us.Or potentially a dominant for possible sexual play. I prefer to create a long term ongoing relationship as I feel trust builds with time and it's much more fun to explore kink and sex with a trusted person in an ongoing and relaxed atmosphere. At this stage I am not interested in a relationship such as boyfriend and girlfriend for example. I am more interested in a possible long term casual relationship.I am not hugely experienced when it comes to sex, however I am keen to learn and I love making my partner happy - which is also why I would prefer something ongoing as I commit to their needs and desires. I also like some sort of a connection with sexual partners that help build trust and the possibility for more intense play/sex that only can develop with time.I would like to search for a top around ploermel ideally however, I also am willing to travel to Pontivy, preferably the West of Rennes and preferably the north of Vannes just to keep travel to under an hour. However, for the right top, the possibility of including all of Rennes and Vannes is possible. I would ideally like to only engage in top/bottom dynamics for a while and discuss the possibility of a dominant/submissive relationship after some time, which trust can developed if both parties are interested and consent to changing the dynamic.I am not currently in a position where hosting is possibleI am very happy to make friends with a lot of people on here, especially those more seasoned kinksters as I love being able to have conversations and hopefully be allowed an insight to your knowledge on kink and bdsm. However, I would also appreciate any potential tops to be within my area. I am serious about wanting to find a top to play with in real life, not virtually so please only send a friends request if either you have a wealth of knowledge which would lead to interesting conversations, or if you live within distance of me for the top/bottom dynamic. To prove people actually read my profile please state red grapes in any friend requests or messages so I know you have actually read my profile. Most friend requests without an attached message will be automatically deleted as you obviously haven't bothered to read my profile. I have selected that I am a submissive as this is true. But to be clear, I am a submissive bottom looking for a top. I have never played with a woman before but I would say I am curious to try it. Either it works for me, or it doesn't. But you never know unless you try right ;-p Just to reiterate. I am 36 female, but yes I am big, curvy, full figured, overweight, fat whichever descriptive you wish to use. So if you expect a sexy hot thin woman you will be disappointed, and I do not wish to deceive anyone or waste anyone's time. Thank you very much

Shibari / bondage, Contrainte (menottes, chaînes ...), Discipline (Fessée, fouet, cravache...), Brûlure (cire ...), Electro-stimulation, Mise en scène (des fantasmes : knidnapping, viol simulé, ...), Autres pratiques (voir "Ce que je cherche")

Une Maîtresse, Un Maître, Partenaire de jeu, Une aventure, Une relation durable, Une amitié

Bi curieu(x/se)

* Resultats du test https://bdsmtest.fr *100% Attaché(e)/Rope bunny 91% Chassé(e)/proie 87% Masochiste 83% Switch 70% Expérimentateur/teuse 59% Soumis(e) 56% Sale gamin(e) (Brat) 53% Voyeur 50% Attacheur/attacheuse (Rigger) 47% Dégradé(e)/Humilié(e) 43% Non-monogame 40% Esclave 39% Ageplayer 30% Sadique 28% Daddy/Mommy (Parent) 28% Exhibitionniste 26% Dominant(e) 25% Dresseur/euse de "sale gamin(e)" 20% Maître/Maîtresse 18% Propriétaire d'animal 17% Little 17% Chasseur/prédateur 17% Dégradeur/dégradeuse 0% Animal de compagnie 0% Vanille