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What is CBT and what does it have to do with BDSM ? (part 1) CBT is well known to psychologists, but it has another far kinkier meaning as well. But what is Cock and Ball Torture? Sienna Saint-Cyr is here to share! To start, CBT is a risk-aware consensual kink, anytime torture or torture devices are involved, we are taking a risk. In order for acts to be consensual, all participants must be aware that they are risking injury. Precautions should be taken, just as with any kink.Inflicting pressure and pain to the cock and balls can be intimidating because it’s dangerous. But why??? So what is the draw, beyond those who enjoy a little humiliation and pain as pleasure? I think for many, it’s a way of feeling like more of a man. Boys grow up hearing, “Grow a pair” or “Get your balls out of her purse.” I loathe these sorts of toxic comments as they are designed to shame men who respect a woman’s opinion. Whose feelings of fear, nervousness, or sadness are ignored. While all of us have our moments of being shamed, men go through a rigorous ‘men must be tough’ brainwashing scheme that begins in early childhood. Even for parents who try hard not to expose their children to that toxicity, the reality is society will inflict it soon enough. I’ve been told this leaves men feeling like they must meet certain standards in order to be men. It’s for this reason that some men love CBT. Even non-kinky dominant men, because any man that can handle his balls being put into a torture device is tough as fuck. For Mistresses like me, taking part in CBT can be therapeutic. Sure it’s fun to inflict pain when you’re a sadist, or when your subby little man is begging for it, but women can also work out their own societal issues. Being in charge of a man in a male-dominated society means a power shift. It can be hot as hell and healing. It’s symbolic… The man’s balls representing masculinity while the woman has them in a vice, squeezing the fuck out of them… How popular is CBT, ball stretching, etc.? Ballbusting and the like sound like something out of a horror movie for someone like my husband. Just my simple inquiry made him gasp. Yet it is so popular that every time I open a kinky profile somewhere online, I get roughly three to five emails a day from men asking for cock and ball torture. Just looking for CBT torture devices online will pull up site after site, tool after tool. This is because CBT is popular. And not just amongst the kink community.